I am a doctor and had my first contact with porn by the age of 14, I believe (I am now 29). For the last years, I had some relationships but always had problems with my libido; my ex girlfriends had low self esteem because they didn´t feel desired by me. I am now married and having the same problem with my wife; she´s very patient, but we had, in the almost 3 years we´re married, lots of fights over the issue, and she had (and still has) trust issues because she thought I had other women - hence my low libido. I never betrayed her, but I also had no idea my problem was porn related. She was pissed off when she found porn in my pc. Each time she found out, I promised I would not do that again, but I alway did; it was like I couldn´t stay off porn, and I used to racionalize it, like "everybody does that, why is she so pissed"? Only when my taste for porn began to change, and when I realized I had no control over my compulsion to search (I used to search stuff in my job, even knowing I could be in serious trouble if they found out). Too bad it took so long for me to accept I had a problem, I could have saved my wife and me so much suffering... I started trying to abstain from porn last year, but it was so hard.. I had a relapse when The Fappening occured, and was full of shame and remorse after that, because I had relapsed and because those poor women were exposed for disgusting people like me. I have been abstinent for some months, now, and found out about this place. It´s been very rewarding, being abstinent, although I know my wife´s trust will be hard to be fully mine again. I showed the nofap to her, and we decides to try the challenge, because I feel my libido isn´t fully restored yet. We´ll try it for my almost recovered libido, for my marriage and for the betterment of my self control. We´re excited with this new challenge, hope we succeed!